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Matriarchal Tradition

Maternal uncle- The most honorific
The maternal uncle of the bride is the most honorific figure at the wedding.  This is a reflection of ancient matriarchal practice in the culture.  In this ancient family system, the family was passed through the mother rather than the father.  The oldest brother is the guardian of his sisters and the sisters' family.  These matriarchal practices seem obsolete nowadays.  There's still a popular phrase:  "In heaven there is the god of thunder; on earth there is the maternal uncle." Because of this history, the uncle is the most respected guest at the wedding.  Everyone on the groom side makes every effort to please him.

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